Today, I have an overwhelming need to talk about dating guys who are more fabulous than we are, so here we go. Basically, I would divide them into 3 categories:
- Guys who are indeed more fab than we are like Wang LeeHom or Brad Pitt
- Guys who think or who delude themselves into thinking that they are more fab but are actually NOT!
- Guys who know that they are not more fab but have the skills to make you believe that they are!!
Category 1: Guys who are indeed more fab than we are like Wang LeeHom or Brad Pitt.
I forgive category 1 because if you indeed choose to date a guy who is by far, better looking than you are, then you have to deal with the whole package that comes along with insecurities and inferiority complex on your side. But more importantly, I forgive them cos it's more worthwhile dating them than dating guys from category 2 and 3.
Category 2 :Guys who think or who delude themselves into thinking that they are more fab but are actually NOT!
These guys should really wake up and smell the crap! You're fooling nobody but yourselves!And you look like idiots! Never date a guy from category 2 cos they are so full of themselves and yet, so insecure that they have to live in their own little delusionary world, mostly constructed during their unpopular days in high school. I can't stand them!
They even tell their gfs (hence, my gfs) that they are so desirable and important when my gfs are so much more fab inside out. It's ok if you're not cute, just get a personality! Stop kidding yourselves!
I fell in love with the song 'complicated' by Avril Lavigne back in uni. She's such a blunt daring revolutionary artiste.
She sang,
'Somebody else round everyone else.
You're watching your back like you can't relax
You're tryin' to be cool you look like a fool to me
Tell me
Why you have to go and make things so complicated?
I see the way you're acting like you're somebody else gets me frustrated'!
Now, it's time to tackle the most important breed.
Category 3: Guys who know that they are not more fab but have the skills to make you believe that they are!!
These are the real players.They lead the pack. Don't get me wrong. I despise them but I somehow have more respect for them, comparatively speaking. They have mastered the skill to manipulate our minds. It's a cruel but clever skill. They know who they are and they are not trying to live in self-deception. No, but much contrary to that, they know their strengths and weaknesses so well that they can use them so precisely and effectively on us.
I have interviewed a few branded players who date women who are much more fab than they are but somehow,they manage to make the girls so insecure and crazy about them. Let me share a story with you. Pass this on to warn your gfs. Laughs!
A guy told me that he would totally ignore the fabulous girl after a date. This is will make her feel insecure about herself. She'll think that she's not as fab as she thinks or that he's not that into her.After that, he'll change his phone number and completely disappear for a week.
By then, she'll start hating him and yet, she won't be able to stop thinking about him and she'll be craving for his attention. And just as she steps into the love/hate zone, he'll call her to tell her that he's below her apartment, with 2 tickets to Paris for the weekend!!
I respect their skills but not their moral values. Look, girl, if you're dating a category 3, you're swimming in extremely dangerous water. I know it's exciting but these guys are the predators out to hunt the best victims they can find. They might really fancy you but they'll always love themselves much more. Also girls, NEVER enter into a relationship thinking you can change such a guy or be their saviour. If you want to be with him just be prepared for the consequences. Accept him as he is.
Here's my last story for today.
Once, a scorpion asked a frog if it could climb on top of it so that the frog can help it cross the river.
The frog said,
'I'm not dumb, you'd kill me with your poisonous sting'!
Scorpion replied,
'I'm not dumb either. If I kill you we'll both drown'!
Hence, the frog took the scorpion on his back and swam across the river. But in the middle of the journey, the scorpion attacked the frog and as they were both drowning,
the frog ask, 'WHY?'!
Scorpion answered,
'I'm sorry but it is in nature to kill'.
Don't expect a guy to change his nature. Maybe he didn't want to hurt you. He might have been hurt in the process too. But he cannot change who he is. If you really insist, then let God change him, you do not want to be his saviour. You'll drown way before that.
I'm sorry I know I am not a very diplomatic girlfriend but I love my gfs too much to lie. I've been there, although maybe not the exact place but I understand. The least you can do is to know what you're dealing with and before you fall irrationally,unreasonably and unconditionally in love. If you're dating category 2 or 3, I wish you all the best! Feel free to share your triumphs and losses here.We'll always be here to listen.
With that, I'll end with parts of the lyrics from 'The Best Damn Thing' by no other than Miss I-Don't-Give-A-Crap Avril Lavigne because she never fails to make me laugh when things get a little too serious.Enjoy!
'I hate it when a guy doesn't get the door,
even though I told him yesterday and the day before...
I hate it when a guy doesn't get the tab and
I have to pull my money out and that looks bad!
Where are the hopes? Where are the dreams?
My Cinderella story scene.
When do you think they'll finally see......
I'm a scene, I'm a drama queen,
I'm the best damn thing that your eyes have ever seen!
I hate it when a guy doesn't understand why a certain time of month,
I don't want to hold his hand,
I hate it when they go out and we stayin,
and they come home smelling like their ex-girlfriends...
But I found my hopes,
I found my dreams.
My Cinderella story scene.
Now everybody's gonna see.....
I'm the best damn thing that your eyes have ever seen'!
Almost too fab,
Rachel
2 comments:
I loved reading it!
Every girl should live Fabulously with or without a guy!
I was here! And u are absolutely right there. Many times, we just don't realise how fabulous we really are. :) Maybe we just need a friend to remind us how fabulous we are, despite seeing us going through our heartbreaking sessions and that perpetual panda looking eyes of ours. Thanks babe for your constant reassurance!
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